Honest Vows
Honest wedding budgets

Plan the wedding you can afford, without the upsell.

Real budget splits, honest tradeoffs, and a clear answer on what to cut, what to keep, and what to do yourself.

Real numbersEvery price has a source and an as-of date.
No pay-to-playVenues and vendors are chosen on value, not payment.
Decisions, not inspirationWe say what to cut, what to keep, and why.
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A $5,000 wedding for 60 people

How a tight budget gets split, and which costs are worth paying for.

Budget tiers

What changes between a $2,500, $5,000, and $10,000 wedding, and what stays the same.

A DIY shopping list

The décor and paper items that are worth making yourself, and the ones that are not.

Venue directory

How we choose venues, and the directory we are building. No paid placements.

How we approach it

Content is drafted with AI assistance and reviewed by a person before it is published. See About.